Nanny vs. Au Pair: Key Differences for Families Seeking Childcare

Dear Families,

We're excited to feature a guest post from one of our talented nanny agency community members, Emily Dills, who brings a personal and practical perspective to a question many families face: What’s the difference between a nanny and an au pair? In this post, Emily breaks down the key differences—from qualifications and schedules to cultural impact and cost—helping parents make the best decision for their unique family needs. Choosing between an au pair and a nanny depends on your family’s needs, lifestyle, and expectations. Below we have provided a simple breakdown:

Au Pair vs. Nanny: What’s the Difference?

If you're looking for in-home childcare, you’ve likely come across two common options: au pairs and nannies. While both provide hands-on care and support, there are key differences in their roles, training, and how they fit into family life.

Au Pairs are typically young adults from abroad who live with your family and provide part-time childcare in exchange for cultural exchange, a stipend, and room and board. Their duties are generally limited, and they’re often best for families seeking flexible support with a cultural twist.

Nannies, on the other hand, are professional caregivers—often local—with substantial experience in child development. They may live in or out of your home and typically work full-time. Nannies are a great choice for families looking for personalized, consistent, and more structured care.

At Nounou Nanny, we are passionate about supporting professional caregivers and elevating industry standards, and we are proud to share resources that empower both families and providers.

👉 Not sure which is right for you? Be sure to check out more of Emily’s insights on “Au Pair vs. Nanny” over at her website Seattle Nanny Network!